The Gift of Rest: Why Grandparents Matter More Than Ever

This week, I felt grateful in a way that hit deep.

My mum gave me and my partner a night off. She packed the kids into her transport van and took them camping. For the first time, our youngest stayed out overnight.

The house was quiet when we got home, almost too quiet. But instead of rushing to fill the silence, we let ourselves breathe in it. By 8pm, both of us were showered, in pyjamas, and slouched on the sofa watching a programme. We even threw a cheeky oven pizza in the oven because we were peckish, and yes we did it while wearing face masks.

It felt light. The weight on our shoulders was lifted, just for a night. My mum kept us updated with texts and photos throughout the day and the next morning, which made the whole experience easier. It wasn’t just a break it was a reset.

Why Grandparents Matter

Not every parent has this luxury, and I don’t take it for granted.
But when grandparents step in, they do more than babysit they extend the village.

• They give you space to breathe. Parenthood is relentless. Having someone you trust step in for even a night can change everything.
• They keep the bond alive. Your kids gain new experiences, new stories, and deeper connections with their roots.
• They protect your relationship. Nights like these remind you and your partner that you’re more than just parents you’re a couple too.

Why This Matters for Fathers

As fathers, we often shoulder the weight quietly. We push through exhaustion, work, gym, school runs, and family dinners. But we’re not meant to do it all alone.

Having support doesn’t make you weak. It makes you sustainable.
When grandparents step in, they’re not just helping with the kids  they’re investing in the family legacy.

Final Word from Papa De Luxe

That night off reminded me: we all need moments where the pressure lifts. Where laughter comes easier. Where the simple act of being still feels like luxury.

So, if you’ve got grandparents who are willing and able say yes. Let them take the kids. Let them spoil them a little. And let yourself recharge.

Because when you come back rested, you don’t just show up better for your kids you show up better for everyone.